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Emotional/Psychological abuse includes:

-          name calling

-          yelling

-          insulting the person

-          threatening the person or threatening to take away something that is important to them

-          imitating or mocking the person

-          swearing at them

-          ignoring

-          isolating the person socially or failing to let them have visitors

-          excluding them from meaningful events and activities

-          threatening to use violence

-          threatening to abandon them

-          intentionally frightening them

-          making them fear they will not receive the food or care they need

-          lying to them

-          making slanderous statements about them to others

-          withholding important information that they have a right to know

-          demeaning them because of the language they speak

-          intentionally misinterpreting their traditional practices

-          repeatedly raising the issue of death with them

-          telling them that they are too much trouble

-          excessively criticizing them

-          being disrespectful

-          unreasonably ordering them around

-          treating them like servants

-          treating them like children

-          makes hostile jokes about the habits and faults

-          ignores their feelings

-          withholds approval as a form of punishment

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    labels them with generally insulting terms: crazy, bitch, stupid

-          repeatedly delivers a series of insults specific to them and designed to inflict maximum psychological damage

-          repeatedly humiliates the victim in front of family members and others

-          isolates the victim socially, perhaps geographically as well (for example, by moving the family to a remote location)

-          blames the victim for all the abuser's troubles and failures

-          threatens physical violence and retaliation against the victim, children or other family members

-          puts down the victim's abilities as a mother, lover, worker, etc

-          demands all the victim's attention and resents the children

-          tells the victim about his sexual affairs

-          constantly accuses her of having affairs, even when she does not have the desire or freedom to have affairs

-          gives the victim the “silent treatment”

-          threatens to abuse the children and/or get custody of them

-          tells the victim he must stay with her because she needs him and couldn't make it without him

-          accuses the victim of being violent if she acts in any way to protect herself

-          questions her sense of reality

-          forces economic dependency: He prevents the victim from working - either by forbidding her to get a job or by making her life so chaotic  that
                   she gets fired - and/or he takes her money

-          puts down or denies the victim's history, heritage, faith, values

-          hits the wall, not her, to display his power

-          breaks personal items that have sentimental value to her as a message that he can break her too

-          threatens, tortures or kills her/their pets

-          threatens suicide if the victim doesn't stay with him or do what he wants

-          spends hours cleaning guns or knives in front of the victim

-          threatens to kill her or her children

-          destroys victim's self esteem

Behaviour of the abuser – Fathers  

Behaviour of the abuser – Mothers
 

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