Parental Alienation - South Africa
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                                                                    • Parental Alienation
                                                                      • The Difference Between Parental Alienation and Parental Alienation Syndrome
                                                                        • Identifying Alienation
                                                                          • Signs of Alienation in Children
                                                                            • Signs of Alienation in Adults
                                                                              • Symptoms of Parental Alienation
                                                                                • Parental Alienation Includes Certain Features
                                                                                  • How Lawyers can Identify the Symptoms
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                                                                                      • The Naive Alienator
                                                                                        • The Active Alienator
                                                                                          • The Obsessed Alienator
                                                                                            • Characteristics of an Alienating Parent
                                                                                              • Behavioural Manifestations in Alienating Parents
                                                                                                • Common Alienation - Related Visitation Problems
                                                                                                  • Interactions Observeable in Children After Visits
                                                                                                    • Risk Factors For Identifying A Custodial Parent to Relocate
                                                                                                      • Management of Visitation
                                                                                                        • Other Ways of Carrying Out the Process of Alienation Via Programming
                                                                                                          • Possible Reasons for Parent Rejection
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                                                                                                                  • Pursuing A Change in Custody
                                                                                                                    • Why Parents Give Up Fighting
                                                                                                                      • What to DO If Your Child is Being Alienated
                                                                                                                        • What NOT to do If Your Child is Being Alienated
                                                                                                                          • The Alienating Parent's Techniques
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                                                                                                                            • Detection of PAS
                                                                                                                              • Eight Points About PAS
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                                                                                                                                  • The Eight Symptoms Explained
                                                                                                                                    • Differential Diagnosis Of The Three Types Of PAS
                                                                                                                                      • Differential Treatment Of The Three Types Of PAS
                                                                                                                                        • A Child Suffering From PAS May Show Fear Of The Following People
                                                                                                                                          • Criteria For Differentiation Between PAS And Bona Fide Abuse
                                                                                                                                            • PAS Can Be Concluded To Exist In A Person...
                                                                                                                                              • Some Experts Consider PAS As A Form Of Child Abuse
                                                                                                                                                • What Is The Best Way To Deal With PAS
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                                                                                                                                                        • Eight Stages of the Programming That Culminates in Severe PAS
                                                                                                                                                          • Five Types of Psychological Maltreatment are Adapted for PAS
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                                                                                                                                                                • What You Do And Don't Do
                                                                                                                                                                  • Why Parents Give Up
                                                                                                                                                                    • Alienation in its Severest Forms Require Comprehensive and Resource Intensive Responses
                                                                                                                                                                      • Subtle Underlying Complicity Of PAS
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Are you...
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • experiencing difficulty with access and visitation with your children?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • a parent with children who want to spend more time with you but the other parent is preventing the children?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • a parent against who false allegations have been used in family court regarding care of your children?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • experiencing difficulties with your former spouse or partner?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • experiencing difficulty in paying or collecting child support payments?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • feeling trapped, frustrated and not heard within the system of lawyers, social workers and judges and don't know where to turn?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        YOU MIGHT BE EXPERIENCING PARENTAL ALIENATION OR HOSTILE AGGRESSIVE PARENTING


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Parental alienation is defined as a set of behaviors that are harmful and damaging to a child's emotional and mental health. It generally involves the mental manipulation and/or bullying of the child to pick between their mother or father. These behaviors can also result in destroying a loving and warm relationship they once shared with a parent.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Parental alienation and hostile aggressive parenting deprive children of their right to be loved by and showing love for both of their parents and extended family. Parental Alienation can occur in intact families, but is mostly seen in separated and divorced families. Parents/guardians using alienation tactics to hurt the other 'target' parent have been compared to cult leaders. They deny access to anything that may challenge their view of the other parent, including any photographs, or communication.


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Parental Alienation Awareness Day


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        25 April

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Parental Alienation Awareness Day is put forth to help raise awareness about this growing problem of mental and emotional child abuse seen mostly in cases of divorce and separation.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        WE NEED YOUR HELP IN CREATING AWARENESS IN SOUTH AFRICA ABOUT PARENTAL ALIENATION AND HOSTILE AGGRESSIVE PARENTING

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        WE NEED YOUR HELP TO PROTECT THE INNOCENT...the children

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        WE NEED YOUR HELP TO EDUCATE AND MAKE AWARE TO THE PUBLIC THE EFFECTS OF PARENTAL ALIENATION AND HOSTILE AGGRESSIVE PARENTING

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Parental Alienation is CHILD ABUSE !!!!!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        This website is dedicated to my daughter, Hèlicia Mari (Lili).

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I have not seen my beautiful little girl since September 2007 due to Parental Alienation and Hostile Aggressive Parenting. This website and all the work I put into it is dedicated to her.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        "I love you Lili, I will not stop fighting this system, not only for you, but for all the other children like you.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I want you to know one day that all the years we spent apart was not in vain, even though I miss you and it breaks my heart." - Renata


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