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Brainwashing Techniques

(1) Denial-of-existence syndrome: Never talks about the other parent; desecrate photos of other parent; do not acknowledge child’s positive experiences with other parent.

(2) The ”Who, Me?” syndrome: Parent tries to convince the child that she must be misinterpreting the brainwashing parent - a form of denial.


(3) Middle-Man syndrome: Speaking to the child about issues that should first have been discussed with the other parent - a form of exclusion.


(4) Circumstantial syndrome: By manipulating, rearranging, changing and commenting on time, the parent tries to gain dominance in the child’s eyes.


(5) “I don’t know what’s wrong with him” syndrome: Create and exaggerate differences between themself and the other parent in front of the children.


(6) The Ally syndrome: Sympathy is the key.


(7) The Morality syndrome: Attack morality of other parent to elevate own morality


(8) ‘Threat of withdrawal of love’ syndrome & ‘I’m the only one who really loves you’ syndrome: self-explanatory.


(9) ‘You’re an endangered species’ syndrome & Physical Survival syndrome: Judgmental, opinionated, negative commentary about the target parent after the child returns from a visitation.


(10) Rewriting-reality syndrome: This is basically the intent behind all of the above techniques.


Source: Clawar, Stanley S. Children Held Hostage: Dealing with Programmed and Brainwashed Children. Chicago: American Bar Association, 1991 at 15-36.
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